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Tinman
Fri Oct 30, 2009
Sorry LonghornBill, but I don't agree with you totally. Yes, a sugar daddy may give an allowance, but that is not a requirement. I have been a sugar daddy in the past, have taken care of the women in my life VERY well, but I have NEVER given an allowance. To me, an allowance is too much like a business transaction and not a relationship to me. It is difficult sometimes to explain what a sugar daddy relationship truly is, but in my opinion it is one in which each person gives voluntarily what he/she is capable of. The GIVING is done because both involved want to make the other person happy. In my opinion, once allowances and set fees are negotiated it becomes a business transaction and has nothing to do with a SD/SB relationship anylonger.
Longhornbill
Fri Oct 30, 2009
Okay! An SD is someone that will provide an allowance and what ever else they choose to do. THAT is a Sugar Daddy. What does he expect in return? When the SB is with him, total devotion and SEX! Now: What about those of us that are here for, certainly sex, but more? They're really are some of us on here to find a relationship - and usually with a younger lady. Keeps us young and feeds our egos. Me? I am in search of a companion that can travel with me or visit my home and just do nothing. There will always be some additional benefits but not the sugar daddy type on a monthly basis. Bottom line: An SD provides on a monthly basis. That's not me.
Mkslaw2003
Fri Oct 30, 2009
Lets not be naive --- sugar daddies give u more than wut the average man will or can. Whether that be monetary or luxury etc. --- this sight is not soley for those seeking true love ---- women that come on here and say that they don't care about the finer things in life and or money are lying to you... im sick of being with men who can't support themselves or me...so if thats wut you want -- is uggest you open your eyes and your mind to giving to get what you deserve in this life.
Luvzthesteelers
Thu Oct 29, 2009
My Sugardaddie is someone who will let me get to know the "real" him, not hide anything and be upfront and honest. I am looking for someone to spend time with and ...who knows!...spend along time with if not always. Yes I too dont have alot of money, I have enough to live life ok, but I will be honest Its just as easy to fall in love with a man who has wealth as to one who has just as much as I have or less....I want to give love and receive it back....
LawyerJD
Thu Oct 29, 2009
For me, an arrangement: Someone to live with me, travel, and enjoy life. In return, I expect to be a provider, a mentor, and above all, a gentleman. Do I want "arm candy?" Sure. Every man does. Does she want to treated well and taken care of by a man who can provide financial security and even her own financial opportunity? Sure. Is this so different than the type of relationship that dream of? Not at all. Are some people ego-centric turn offs? Of course - that's part of life, too. Speaking as a successful man, I know what it is like to be "hooker bait." SD kicks fakes, scammers and hookers off at something resembling the speed of light. One woman asked me for one stand escort money and she was gone the very next time I logged in. And I like that! An arrangement may be short term, part time, long term or full time, but I don't want an escort for an hour or two. Hooking is not a SD/SB relationship. Not at all.
Veryeligible
Wed Oct 28, 2009
Well, it goes back to when we lived in caves. Man provides his woman with wormth, security and food. Today it's translated into money, money, money. No shame in that.
Mochanik31
Tue Oct 27, 2009
None of us need to insult each other as we are all on here for some type of need whether it be for love, companionship or otherwise. No haters please! I'm a Professional woman who makes 6 figures on my own, therefore, I won't date a man who is not in balance with me. I was brought up by successful parents & raised to be ambitious & have a confident spirit. I believe a man should take care of a woman as my father who was a millionaire took care of my mother and she wanted for naught. As his wife, she did her part to make him happy & they have been married for over 50 years. I have to work and make my own money but I want to be spoiled because I deserve it! I take care of my man and I cater to his every need. It goes hand in hand! I take care of my appearance, I workout to keep in shape and at 37 now I look fabulous and often mistaken for 25years old. There's nothing wrong with showing your assets as long as it's done in a tasteful way!
SAPhoenix
Mon Oct 26, 2009
Whatever your motivation was to have joined this website why be so serious about labelling each other and questioning each others motives. Just have fun and dont take all of this so seriously! This is just another mechanism to try to meet people in a non-threatening environment stop judging everyone else's motives and just enjoy the friendships you will invariably make. Just have respect for yourself and others and it all slips into place....Have fun..
Spoilmerottenxo
Sun Oct 25, 2009
I agree with the idea that many sugar babes are literally selling themselves short. So many of these females' pictures could just as easily be advertisements for porn or something more. That level of display is unnecessary especially when this is just a site that has just as many false representations as any other site. A "true" SD/SB relationship if there is such a thing should be an established man that is willing to do things that other men only dream about doing but do not have the means to do so.
Rruby
Thu Oct 22, 2009
Im hoping a SD.is a MAN who is not only Solvent but knows how to treat his Date as a Lady.....With respect and Good Manners.. Last date i went on,I had to buy the drinks (problem,...with card !!!!!) Im Tired of men like that and there are a lot about.............................Must be all in the breeding.........
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