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Why do we do this? Because whomever we may meet or see
when we are out is going to look at us. We want them
to think that we are smart interesting and well put together. Look at your
profile in the same light. Dress it like you’d dress yourself. With care. The
dating profile is your tool to create the first impression in online dating.
Twenty four hours a day it is working relentlessly to gain further interest from
people who have found you in their search. Think about what you are writing,
draft it a few times if need be. If you need to come back to it at another time
then do so. But make sure you are making it work for you.
Online dating is a very unique product and
very rarely will you ever get the chance to make a first impression again. Put
the shoe on the other foot for a minute. When you visit a dating profile, what
do you look for? What is it that takes your interest to think- hold on a minute,
this person is great. Witt, looks, charm, and character are just a small number
of things that contribute to a person’s attraction.
The attractions stimulated within online
dating are no different to the attractions aroused when you meet someone by more
traditional methods. You just have to portray them in different way. Your
control is left in the capable hands of your dating profile, so be sure to take
the time to make it reflect the true you and give it the chance to sell your
best features and strengths to someone. Consider this fact when becoming a
member of the online dating community and if it’s at all possible, be different
and stand out from the crowd; not like a clown, but more like a prince. |