The Right Things To Say On A Date

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Perhaps the very thought of going out on a date has a person paralyzed just at the mere thought of having to keep the conversation going with someone you don't yet know very well.

Don't get caught behind the eight ball when the conversation comes to a lull during your date; single women are not as complicated as they may look and there are some pretty standard correct topics of conversation that one can commit to memory in order to stave off any uncomfortable moments.

One of the most obvious correct things a gentleman will want to comment on to their date is her appearance; chances are very good that this woman spent a lot of time in choosing her outfit, applying makeup and styling her hair, in preparation for the date. Whether you're seeing her in person for the first time, or perhaps are already acquainted, something to the effect of 'well don't you look great...' is a common dating courtesy.

Unless advance plans have been made for your evening out, single women appreciate being asked for their comment on where the evening may take place. This can be opening yourself up for potential disaster if a reservation at an Italian restaurant is made only to then find out that she's on a low-carb diet and allergic to tomatoes. While the woman may seem very agreeable and may not provide an exact suggestion on where to go, it is still correct to be nice to ask and to open up a discussion around what her culinary preferences are. Better to be safe than sorry.

It goes without saying that while there are some right things to comment on to single women on a date, there are also some wrong things to say. The topics to shy away from (at least for now) are probing questions that could be construed as a bit too personal until there is a higher comfort level. It is best to let her take the lead when it comes to discussing family situations, previous relationships and personal health issues. Feel free to strike up a conversation revolving around her work and what she likes to do in her spare time. Asking questions about her job and her hobbies will help to identify some parallels to each other's world, thus allowing the conversation to flow.

Most importantly, when out on a date, just be yourself when you make a comment. Allow the true personality to shine through and let this lady see you in the truest light. Keep in mind that dating single women should be fun, so no matter where your conversation may go, relax and have fun.