Meaningful Relationship

Dear Daddy.

    I’m new to this site I would class myself as an attractive women, I’m looking for a meaning full relationship, I have been caught up before where lust was the main theme in my relationship and no deepness how do I stop that from happening again.

Looking For The Real Thing

 

Dear Looking For The Real Thing,

    If two attractive people come together, lust is sometimes hard to resist. In order to gain a foothold in a relationship that is going to have respect, fulfillment and a pathway to even greater things, you have consider that common saying, ‘good things come, to those who wait’. It’s difficult to deny your sexual desires, but if you see the relationship as a long term possibility, then you have to re-order the way things progress in the initial days/ months of the growing connection . If sex has the possibility of being great at the beginning of the relationship, it will still have the same impact after a month or two (in fact it will probably be better). Try and discover the person behind the great looks and sexual aura first by first experiencing the laughter, the adventures and the feeling that you are getting to know someone special first. I make it sound so simple, but if you simply say to yourself, okay, I’m going to get to know this person for what they are first and we’re going to get comfortable with each other to the point that I look forward to the next date. Not because of the physical attraction, but because this person makes me laugh and I’d rather be on this date than anything else. It’s at this point you may be ready, why? Because not only will you have found someone beneath the outer shell, but so would the person you’d have been spending all this time with.

Best Regards,

Daddy
 

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