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Dear Daddy,

   I’ve been single for quit a while now and have made a success of myself, which I feel has been down to the fact that the single life made me focus totally on one thing, I’m ready for a change, but I am a little worried that I’ve been single too long and set in my ways. Advice please

Successful Single

Dear Successful Single,

   What a great question. We all have our own lives to live, this is a simple yet obvious statement, that is overlooked by many when entering a relationship. If we were forced to give up our dream, then the dream is shattered and we search for something or someone to blame for such a tragedy. Seek a true match who would encourage you in your life’s ambitions and be there to help celebrate and be the shoulder when times didn’t go as well as you’d like. But be aware, as reward for that support, you have to give a little of your independence to keep the support that sees you through your life’s challenges. I’ll leave you to think of a few common saying’s. ‘A problem shared is a problem halved’ and ‘you are my rock’. We can all live on our own quite easily, but life’s pleasures are usually enjoyed the most when they are shared. I’d suggest, take things slow, but keep focused on what the long term happiness of being together as two can really offer.

Best Regards,

Daddy