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Do you know how to choose romantic food?

Published on 16 May 2012 with 0 Comments

In order to know how to choose romantic foods one must first understand the setting. The mood music playing in the background, a gentle breeze is blowing through the balcony windows causing the light white drapes to billow up and push aside giving view to the moonlit ocean below. All is perfect as you are about to sit down with an attractive woman for dinner and some wine. The rent-a-waiter hired for the evening brings out the appetizers and the lady has a pained look on her face as the buffalo chicken wings chosen are placed up on the table. It is then apparent that someone does not know how to choose romantic foods.

 

These chicken wings would be fine if it were at a picnic and an individual had little intention of turning the afternoon romantic, but remember that even when men go out of the house to buy groceries their primary concern is to find and romance a woman. So it is imperative that if one is going to spend any time at all with a woman, he will have to eat and therefore should know how to choose romantic food. The setting means everything; if sitting in the movie theater, you can have a tender moment sharing popcorn and a drink or eating from both ends of a red licorice until lips meet in the middle. It’s not always the food but how and when it is served.

 

This is not to say that dining at elegant restaurants is not the way to go, but this article is to see if one can know how to choose romantic foods, not restaurants. Lets say the date is taking place in a five star restaurant would a person be able to look at a menu and choose the most romantic foods for that date and that woman? There are those foods that are said to boost one’s libido such as oysters and there are those that demonstrate elegance and the finer things in life such as Foie Gras. There is not much to do when searching a menu at a restaurant to discover what romantic foods are offered there, as long as you have done your homework and know the names of some.

 

 

I’d like to conclude the article on how to choose romantic foods by impressing upon the reader that both the affluent and the middle income folks can both bring their cuisine to a new level more by compliment the mood or atmosphere of the moment with the right choices of food rather than merely purchasing expensive caviar or truffles. A simple back yard barbeque in which the couple can take part in the preparation and cooking of a fine meal, topped off with a dessert the two of you created can lead to a passionate evening just as easy as the finest meal at a top rated restaurant. Of course it also helps if both he and she are naked under the apron!

Long Distance Relationships – Should I go or should I stay?

Published on 15 May 2012 with 0 Comments

Long distance relationships are never easy and they will strain even the best of relationships. The smallest speed bumps may seem like Mount Everest when you are hundreds of miles away from the one you want to be with. So then the question eventually arises should I, or my partner, consider a move to the other’s city so we can be together? Sounds like a relatively simple question, right? Well, the truth of the matter is that it can be one of the most unsettling experiences in your life, and that’s not even from the move itself, just the thought of it! So how does one know that they should consider picking up their current life and moving to another city? Here are some factors and advice that a person should consider before making such a transition.

One of the most significant indicators of when a long distance relationship should become a same city relationship is length of time. If you have recently met someone on a vacation to some tropical beach and you live in New York and they live in Texas, short of fireworks and baby cupids flying over your heads when you kiss, there is no reason for either of you to make a life altering decision to relocate at this time. One of the greatest blunders a new couple can make is mistaking desire and lust for a true relationship with potential. Moving too quickly concerning a long distance relationship is a recipe for failure, as you still don’t know enough about each other to make a life changing decision. If the two of you are meant to be together, you can both wait just a bit longer without worrying about the actions of the other.
Another important factor in determining whether it is feasible for you to make a move in order to change a long distance relationship into a same city one is what type of job or career you currently have. If you work for yourself via the Internet such as a stock trader or as an online consultant, the move would be much easier than a person who needs to be at a brick and mortar office on a daily basis. Most of the time your career determines your place of residence more than you do. There are however those larger companies that have many offices nationwide which could make a move much easier. The bottom line is that you may have spent a lot of time and effort getting to a point in your career that would not transitional well to a move and to start fresh may cause issues and resentment. Your partner may be having the exact same concerns as you about their career as well.
For those who are already well into their careers there are also those that may be still be attending various universities and have not yet found their career paths. This does not make the move from one city to another any less difficult, as like large companies, universities may be on opposite sides of the country and just as difficult to transfer from one to another. The positive aspect of being a college student involved in a long distance relationship is that age is on your side. It is much easier for a young person to delay a relocation decision as they have more than likely not yet invested much time into their chosen fields of occupation. Young people for the most part are mostly concerned about their own careers, this bit of selfish or “me first” attitude may make any relationships take a back seat for the moment.

Relocation to a new city to be with that special someone is a great plan if you truly feel the potential of a long-term relationship is there, but consider what you may be leaving behind. We have mentioned jobs and school, but what about the people we leave behind? What family are we leaving? Do you have older parents that need you? Do you have brothers and sisters that may only get to see you occasionally on holidays? This is an issue that you must give serious consideration and seek advice as moving to be with someone you may love may cause more heartache than letting him or her go.


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Millionaire Matchmaker Will Find You A Rich Sugar Daddy

Published on 08 May 2012 with 0 Comments

Matchmaking is quite often described as a method of bringing individuals together for the intention of dating and hopefully entering into a long term relationship. This worked quite well in the movie “fiddler on the roof” and we all know that wonderful song with the axiom “matchmaker, matchmaker make me a match” but in that film there was another song that was even more poignant to our discussion, that being, “If I were a rich man!” Hence begins our discussion in the use of a millionaire matchmaker and the search to find a rich sugar daddy.

There are great numbers of dating services in the world, however if we narrow down their scope of relevance to only those catering to the extremely wealthy, we are then left with the upscale millionaire matchmakers. These dating services cater to those who have achieved much in their lives including great wealth, and therefore are searching for relationships that go beyond the traditional and ordinary. Introductions can be achieved in a number of ways, but with the advent of the World Wide Web and high technology, most scenarios involving an introduction are taking place on the internet, although a very few still conduct this undertaking in a up close and in person manner.

In order to accurately introduce a wealthy man to a young woman who is trying to find a rich sugar daddy or “significant other” of considerable affluence, the dating service must determine in addition to the normal criteria for a dating relationship, the financial status of one party and the desires of the other. This may seem like an easy task except that it is quite common for those in positions of great wealth to not be entirely forthcoming as to their alleged levels. The other party may also exaggerate their perceived worth and overstate their desires as well.

The millionaire dating services although in the business of introductions has many more topics of concern to address than the traditional introduction service. In addition to physical and emotional compatibility, they must address issues of fiscal compatibility as well. This does not mean that both parties must be on the same financial level but both must have what the other holds of value and can provide that need. We certainly have come a long way form the brokered marriages in “Fiddler on the Roof.”

About noah_van_hochman

Noah Van Hochman’s distinctive style of bringing his thoughts and abilities for all to see is comparable to a summer storm, you can see it coming, but there is really nothing you can do about it! His vast knowledge on a multitude of subjects leaves him with a variety of opinions that can change in an instant, and often do. Mr. Van Hochman may at times have the demeanor of the Dalai Lama while at other periods he may appear to be more of a drunken sailor out on shore leave! Whatever manner he is presenting at the moment one thing is certain, his intellect and analytical skills are considerable, and wherever his travels take him you can be certain he will make wonderful new friends. Children and puppies love him

Professional Singles Too Busy For Bars

Published on 08 May 2012 with 0 Comments

The company is in the middle of merger or large acquisition and all are spending long hours at the office. Friends and relatives invite you out for a cocktail or dinner at the newest hotspot in town but are forced to decline as you have entered the ranks of the professional singles too busy for bars.  It is not uncommon, one has to make choices in life and to get to the power position many dream of, hard decisions must be made. It is at this time you are trying to find some sort of balance in life, but for professional singles too busy for bars the choices are not many. Don’t fear all is not lost as with just a bit of thought and imagination one can have the best of both worlds.

Firstly, decide if you’re going to these hotspots is to spend quality time with good friends, enjoy the evening and chat aimlessly while sipping your favorite Martini, or are you on the hunt for that special person who can make the rest of your life abundant with incredible bliss or at least the rest of that evening! It seems that many professionals have taken refuge on the various Internet dating sites which cater to any and every niche group imaginable.

The use of online dating sites has made the search for a relationship, regardless of the type, incredibly more efficient and effective. This enables those singles to begin their search for a relationship right from the comfort of their own home or office during lulls in their busy schedules. Imagine you are waiting for an important phone while watching economic news stream across CNBC.  Once can now simultaneously browse the personals on their favorite online dating site and make note of any individuals that they might want to contact at some later point. Compare this to having to dress for the evening, commute to the venue with hopes that one incredible person may catch your eye out of a hundred.

These established men and women can view thousands of profiles, which through specific search criteria are within those parameters they deem important in a significant other. Instead of spending an hour getting to know one person who may or may not have these qualities, the busy executive can now break the ice with a hundred individuals in the time it used to take to know one person. Of course these numbers are whittled down to a select few that you may want to contact in real life and invite for a person to person interaction. For hard-working demanding individuals it’s all about the numbers and in this case, time is an important asset so the more people you can meet in the shortest amount of time is of great importance.

About noah_van_hochman

Noah Van Hochman’s distinctive style of bringing his thoughts and abilities for all to see is comparable to a summer storm, you can see it coming, but there is really nothing you can do about it! His vast knowledge on a multitude of subjects leaves him with a variety of opinions that can change in an instant, and often do. Mr. Van Hochman may at times have the demeanor of the Dalai Lama while at other periods he may appear to be more of a drunken sailor out on shore leave! Whatever manner he is presenting at the moment one thing is certain, his intellect and analytical skills are considerable, and wherever his travels take him you can be certain he will make wonderful new friends. Children and puppies love him

What Actually Is An Eligible Bachelor?

Published on 30 Apr 2012 with 0 Comments

We hear the phrase eligible bachelor so often that we look at it as an all encompassing term, when most of the time people should just use the word bachelor, as they have no concept of what makes a person eligible. This term can be very subjective, however there are some factors that should be considered that are far more important than just marital status. Before we go into those aspects it should be understood that one person’s point of view on this issue can vary greatly from another’s depending on socio-economic variables as well as personal tastes. When your mother tells you her friend Ethel has a son who is a very successful Doctor and is an eligible bachelor, she may not be telling you that he has the personality of a turnip and lives with 18 cats. There are major differences between financially eligible, personality eligible or socially eligible, and of course the total package of eligibility would be a combination of all three.  Of course if he were good looking as well he’d only be eligible to those who appear at a rose ceremony on televisions’ “the bachelor.”

Financially eligible is an important factor as it has been said many times that its just as easy to date a rich man as a poor one, however the perks of dating someone who is financially stabile and can afford to take you out to dinner without having to check how much of a balance is left on his ATM or credit card, is quite nice. Money matters are one of the main causes of divorce so it should definitely be well thought-out when considering dating someone.  Remember, we are assuming for arguments sake that this person is single so the only question is in what other ways is he eligible.

 

Next, you must think about how this person’s personality will mesh with yours. If you are an outgoing, and boisterous person who likes to party the night away at the newest and trendiest clubs, while he would rather stay at home watching reruns of “Star trek” there may be some issues in a potential relationship. Personality eligibility means that you have common interests and not only would enjoy spending time engaging in activities, but would also like to spend time discussing them in a manner you both enjoy. Having pleasant conversation over dinner and a bottle of wine is wonderful if you both take pleasure in it, if one does and the other would rather talk about it in between sets at a head banger’s battle of the bands, well…not so good.

Socially eligible may seem to encompass some aspects of the personality component, however this is more about how he acts and responds to social situations. If your friends, and those you tend to spend a great deal of leisure time with are fun loving and gregarious and your potential significant other is more of a quiet, sit in the corner at parties kind of guy he may not fit in to your social network very well. You may think that this doesn’t matter, as he would be dating you and not them. Wrong! When you date someone, you bring them into your group of friends and family. Everyone around you  ‘dates’ that person to some extent. If your friends do not feel comfortable around this person, you could find yourself not being invited to as many group outings as you had previously.

So as you see, the key to understanding the true meaning of eligible bachelor goes well beyond the simple significance of being unmarried. The eligible bachelor should be someone who fits into your world and you fit into theirs, this fit need not be perfect but it should be close enough to supply each of you what you desire without have to compromise too much of what and who you are. So when mom tells you that her friend Ethel has a son that is perfect eligible bachelor for you, take a moment to figure out what eligible might mean to you.

About noah_van_hochman

Noah Van Hochman’s distinctive style of bringing his thoughts and abilities for all to see is comparable to a summer storm, you can see it coming, but there is really nothing you can do about it! His vast knowledge on a multitude of subjects leaves him with a variety of opinions that can change in an instant, and often do. Mr. Van Hochman may at times have the demeanor of the Dalai Lama while at other periods he may appear to be more of a drunken sailor out on shore leave! Whatever manner he is presenting at the moment one thing is certain, his intellect and analytical skills are considerable, and wherever his travels take him you can be certain he will make wonderful new friends. Children and puppies love him