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Do women like muscles or brainiacs?

Published on 05 Sep 2012 with 1 Comment


This is a question that has been asked throughout the ages, are women more attracted to men with rippling, toned physiques, or those with brains? To answer this question we need to look deeper and begin a modest investigation of the differences between both types of men, but from the female perspective.

It seems that although most women appear to like a man with muscles, it’s the total package that most females desire. The totally ripped gym rat looks great, but if he has the intellect of an eggplant the window dressing is wasted. A man does not have to be perfect, but simply to be well groomed, reasonably fit and have an air of confidence about him, as this will elevate this person well above the man who merely has a muscular body going for him.

To most women, your occupation does not give you license not to put in any effort into your physical and mental well-being. A plumber can get to the gym and dress neatly just as easily as a stockbroker. It’s more of a mental state that separates those that can from those that can’t. This is why the perfect combination of Brainiac and Muscleman is in such high demand.

When we talk about brainacs, we are not necessarily speaking of someone with a genius IQ, what we are saying is someone who has the intelligence along with the discipline and desire to achieve and succeed. Many women can’t accurately put their finger on those things that create sexual attraction, but it is almost universally accepted that it is a combination of several things that generates interest. Women can sense passion, not only in regards to the chemistry between two people, but in the way a person approaches life as well.

There are of course those women who do not care in the slightest about a man’s character, intellect or the way in which he presents himself, for them its only about one thing, ‘is he hot or not!’ Some women, much like some men, look at a member of the opposite sex merely as a conquest, and the thought of any long-term relationship never enters the thought process. For these women it’s all about short-term and instant gratification.

But the question still needs to be addressed, do women prefer men with great bodies or men with great minds, and because the human race is imperfect and subject to a variety of opinions, this question can never be truly answered one way or the other. What can be stated is that each person has a particular set of experiences as they grow up.

These experiences shape who that person is today and what makes them happy and what does not. Finding someone who shares many of your experiences or at least the way in which you view the world can change the way in which you perceive that person. In high school it was the geeks versus the jocks, but as we got older the lines became a bit less clear as each of us has that sense of the perfect combination that they connect with, that one person who’s body drives you crazy and who’s mind takes you to a whole other level.

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Noah Van Hochman’s distinctive style of bringing his thoughts and abilities for all to see is comparable to a summer storm, you can see it coming, but there is really nothing you can do about it! His vast knowledge on a multitude of subjects leaves him with a variety of opinions that can change in an instant, and often do. Mr. Van Hochman may at times have the demeanor of the Dalai Lama while at other periods he may appear to be more of a drunken sailor out on shore leave! Whatever manner he is presenting at the moment one thing is certain, his intellect and analytical skills are considerable, and wherever his travels take him you can be certain he will make wonderful new friends. Children and puppies love him

The Guy Code To Romance

Published on 27 Jun 2012 with 0 Comments

There are guy’s out there that are giving other men a bad name when it comes to romance. Its not that these guys are mean or abusive, they are just schmucks when it comes to communicating any feelings to their wives or girlfriends. I understand that its easier for some guys to get their feelings across than others, but this is where the major debate arises, its not that there aren’t any feelings of romance within a guy, its just that he has no idea how to express them. It’s for this reason that many relationships go wrong, even though they can so easily can be turned around simply with some thought of how those feelings can and should be expressed.

If you are with someone special you should have already felt those romantic feelings, but also understand romance for guys may manifest itself a bit different than for women. Romance for men or romance for women is more about expressing the feelings that should already exist rather than trying to figure out how to be more romantic. If you need to read a book or blogs for someone else to tell you how you should feel then something is probably wrong.

Once a guy recognizes and acts upon his romantic side it could become a bit habit forming. Romance is fun, so why not keep it up as long as the feelings are there? Have you ever given someone a gift and seen his or her face light up? How did that make you feel? Well, if you are in a sound romantic relationship, you probably felt almost as good as the person receiving the present. So why not keep that feeling going, it could be something as simple as holding a door open to a car with an umbrella on a rainy night, or a beautiful pair of diamond earrings, for the more extreme. The key for most guys who are figuring out how to get in touch with their romantic side is to express those feelings in a manner that will let their wife or girlfriends know that they are always thinking of them.

Many guys are romantic but don’t like anyone to know that they are, in their eyes it may make them seem less macho. These closet romantics will display a momentary romantic gesture before retreating back into their tough guy façade. Being a closet romantic is fine as long as the object of your affection sees through the facade, and you make no major effort to conceal your romantic guy alter ego from her.

Timing is another important aspect of the guy’s code to romance. Romantic gestures must come from a spontaneous outpouring of feelings that are pure and not contrived to cover some ulterior motive. Forgetting your girlfriend’s birthday and feeling pretty crappy about it is not a good reason for romance, as guilt is never a good reason to do anything, it is merely covering for something that should have been done already. Romantic gestures should not be one and done either, they are continuous expressions of how you feel about someone.

Once those feelings begin to wane, and the displays of affection are few and far between, the relationship is usually on the decline. Romance encompasses both passion and intimacy, but it is important to realize that there is a difference between these two. Quite often you will meet someone and the passion burns hot for a short period of time but quite often fades quickly as well. Intimacy is a closeness that takes time to develop and usually can stand the test of time, especially when expressions of romance are displayed on an ongoing basis, but more importantly, as long as romance is felt.

About noah_van_hochman

Noah Van Hochman’s distinctive style of bringing his thoughts and abilities for all to see is comparable to a summer storm, you can see it coming, but there is really nothing you can do about it! His vast knowledge on a multitude of subjects leaves him with a variety of opinions that can change in an instant, and often do. Mr. Van Hochman may at times have the demeanor of the Dalai Lama while at other periods he may appear to be more of a drunken sailor out on shore leave! Whatever manner he is presenting at the moment one thing is certain, his intellect and analytical skills are considerable, and wherever his travels take him you can be certain he will make wonderful new friends. Children and puppies love him

Writing A Good Headline For Your Dating Profile.

Published on 18 Jun 2012 with 0 Comments

 

By creating an effective online dating profile headline, a person can literally change their life. Read about several writing tips to help point you in the right direction.

Meeting your potential mate online is very common these days as internet dating has made it easy and convenient for people to get together. Just like anything else, there are some things to know in order to improve your online dating experience.

Creating a meaningful profile can make all the difference in the world in terms of your success in meeting someone online so here are some guidelines. Your profile is going to need a name or title. Try to think of a headline for a dating profile that somehow identifies who you are or what you’re interested in. Stay away from names that might send the wrong message to someone who will be reading your profile.

The next thing to do is to write about yourself. This section is very important because it’s like making a first impression on someone. The goal in writing about yourself is to let people know what your interests are and what you’re looking for. Be sure to list any hobbies that you may have so that you can attract someone who has similar interests.

Stay away from sounding negative, angry and apologetic for being on a dating site as this will make you appear to be a bitter person. Instead focus on writing about positive things and try including a little humor in your profile which can really make all the difference in the world. You can even incorporate this into the dating profile headlines.

Checking for grammar, spelling and punctuation errors is also very important. A person can be extremely intelligent but if their writing is filled with spelling mistakes and typos, they’re are going to appear uneducated and readers will get easily annoyed and turned off.

After you’ve finished writing about yourself you will need to post a photo. Including several pictures of yourself will greatly increase your odds of having your profile noticed. When it comes to dating advice, I can’t think of anything more important then including several photos of yourself in your profile as a picture is worth a thousand words. Make sure you are easily viewable in the photos and stay away from posting pictures of you and your friends.

By taking the time to create meaningful dating profiles with catchy dating profile headlines, using the above dating tips as a writing guide, you’ll increase your chances of finding what it is you’ve been searching for and that is when your life can literally change!

 

 

 

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Noah Van Hochman’s distinctive style of bringing his thoughts and abilities for all to see is comparable to a summer storm, you can see it coming, but there is really nothing you can do about it! His vast knowledge on a multitude of subjects leaves him with a variety of opinions that can change in an instant, and often do. Mr. Van Hochman may at times have the demeanor of the Dalai Lama while at other periods he may appear to be more of a drunken sailor out on shore leave! Whatever manner he is presenting at the moment one thing is certain, his intellect and analytical skills are considerable, and wherever his travels take him you can be certain he will make wonderful new friends. Children and puppies love him

What Do Women Really Want From Men!?

Published on 01 Jun 2012 with 1 Comment

If you’ve ever wondered what a woman really wants from her man then check out this graphic. We surveyed over 4,600 women to help uncover what they really want from their man!

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About noah_van_hochman

Noah Van Hochman’s distinctive style of bringing his thoughts and abilities for all to see is comparable to a summer storm, you can see it coming, but there is really nothing you can do about it! His vast knowledge on a multitude of subjects leaves him with a variety of opinions that can change in an instant, and often do. Mr. Van Hochman may at times have the demeanor of the Dalai Lama while at other periods he may appear to be more of a drunken sailor out on shore leave! Whatever manner he is presenting at the moment one thing is certain, his intellect and analytical skills are considerable, and wherever his travels take him you can be certain he will make wonderful new friends. Children and puppies love him

Divorced women and how to meet men after separation.

Published on 30 May 2012 with 0 Comments

 

While divorce may be viewed as the end of one chapter, it is also often thought of as a fresh start for many. So how to move forward and actually meet men now that you’re single? There are many places an attractive woman can meet a new guy
and begin the process of dating after divorce.

Check out singles groups. Whether you have a friend that belongs to an outdoor enthusiasts group, or saw an ad for Parents without Partners on Facebook, don’t just listen to the stories others tell about how much fun they have, get out there and join them! There are plenty of single men in these groups who are looking to socialize and meet single women.  Pay attention to who the single dads are at your child’s school. It could be a fellow volunteer at the Ice Cream Social, or may even be your son’s teacher… so be receptive to school-time conversation and don’t count anything out.
Network within your circle of friends. Your friends are one of your greatest resources when it comes to meeting Mr. Right (or even just Mr. Now), so be sure they know you are looking. Too often, friends may assume that you’re “not ready” after your divorce unless you come right out and tell them. Even if they don’t know someone directly, their spouses have co-workers, who have friends, etc.  Join a gym.  A local gym can be a great place to meet men while keeping yourself looking your best. Nothing says I am over past relationships and ready for the future better than a well toned body. The best part is that you don’t even have to look like you are ready for the next fitness competition to attract men, you need only show the determination to try in order to attract! If you are looking for a bit of payback as well, a well toned body is great revenge as this states to your ex (if he should happen to see you) that you have moved on and he is no longer holding you back and your best is not being wasted on him.
The bottom line is that just because one marriage didn’t work out the way you had planned does not mean that you will never have the type of relationship you have always longed for. After all, there is life after divorce for women! The only thing that can stop you is you! Giving up is only going to make you lonely and more than likely overweight, (see tip about going to gym). You need to make a conscious effort to be receptive to engaging in a new relationship.  Sitting home and merely browsing the profiles is not going to get you out on a Saturday night, but taking the bull by the horns and sending an introductory message just might. Keep an open mind and realize that the perfect person for you may turn up in any situation, from bumping into in line at the supermarket or asking you about the book you are reading during your morning commute. In can happen anytime and anywhere and all you have to do is be open to notion that it will.

About noah_van_hochman

Noah Van Hochman’s distinctive style of bringing his thoughts and abilities for all to see is comparable to a summer storm, you can see it coming, but there is really nothing you can do about it! His vast knowledge on a multitude of subjects leaves him with a variety of opinions that can change in an instant, and often do. Mr. Van Hochman may at times have the demeanor of the Dalai Lama while at other periods he may appear to be more of a drunken sailor out on shore leave! Whatever manner he is presenting at the moment one thing is certain, his intellect and analytical skills are considerable, and wherever his travels take him you can be certain he will make wonderful new friends. Children and puppies love him