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Do women like muscles or brainiacs?

Published on 05 Sep 2012 with 1 Comment


This is a question that has been asked throughout the ages, are women more attracted to men with rippling, toned physiques, or those with brains? To answer this question we need to look deeper and begin a modest investigation of the differences between both types of men, but from the female perspective.

It seems that although most women appear to like a man with muscles, it’s the total package that most females desire. The totally ripped gym rat looks great, but if he has the intellect of an eggplant the window dressing is wasted. A man does not have to be perfect, but simply to be well groomed, reasonably fit and have an air of confidence about him, as this will elevate this person well above the man who merely has a muscular body going for him.

To most women, your occupation does not give you license not to put in any effort into your physical and mental well-being. A plumber can get to the gym and dress neatly just as easily as a stockbroker. It’s more of a mental state that separates those that can from those that can’t. This is why the perfect combination of Brainiac and Muscleman is in such high demand.

When we talk about brainacs, we are not necessarily speaking of someone with a genius IQ, what we are saying is someone who has the intelligence along with the discipline and desire to achieve and succeed. Many women can’t accurately put their finger on those things that create sexual attraction, but it is almost universally accepted that it is a combination of several things that generates interest. Women can sense passion, not only in regards to the chemistry between two people, but in the way a person approaches life as well.

There are of course those women who do not care in the slightest about a man’s character, intellect or the way in which he presents himself, for them its only about one thing, ‘is he hot or not!’ Some women, much like some men, look at a member of the opposite sex merely as a conquest, and the thought of any long-term relationship never enters the thought process. For these women it’s all about short-term and instant gratification.

But the question still needs to be addressed, do women prefer men with great bodies or men with great minds, and because the human race is imperfect and subject to a variety of opinions, this question can never be truly answered one way or the other. What can be stated is that each person has a particular set of experiences as they grow up.

These experiences shape who that person is today and what makes them happy and what does not. Finding someone who shares many of your experiences or at least the way in which you view the world can change the way in which you perceive that person. In high school it was the geeks versus the jocks, but as we got older the lines became a bit less clear as each of us has that sense of the perfect combination that they connect with, that one person who’s body drives you crazy and who’s mind takes you to a whole other level.

The Guy Code To Romance

Published on 27 Jun 2012 with 0 Comments

There are guy’s out there that are giving other men a bad name when it comes to romance. Its not that these guys are mean or abusive, they are just schmucks when it comes to communicating any feelings to their wives or girlfriends. I understand that its easier for some guys to get their feelings across than others, but this is where the major debate arises, its not that there aren’t any feelings of romance within a guy, its just that he has no idea how to express them. It’s for this reason that many relationships go wrong, even though they can so easily can be turned around simply with some thought of how those feelings can and should be expressed.

If you are with someone special you should have already felt those romantic feelings, but also understand romance for guys may manifest itself a bit different than for women. Romance for men or romance for women is more about expressing the feelings that should already exist rather than trying to figure out how to be more romantic. If you need to read a book or blogs for someone else to tell you how you should feel then something is probably wrong.

Once a guy recognizes and acts upon his romantic side it could become a bit habit forming. Romance is fun, so why not keep it up as long as the feelings are there? Have you ever given someone a gift and seen his or her face light up? How did that make you feel? Well, if you are in a sound romantic relationship, you probably felt almost as good as the person receiving the present. So why not keep that feeling going, it could be something as simple as holding a door open to a car with an umbrella on a rainy night, or a beautiful pair of diamond earrings, for the more extreme. The key for most guys who are figuring out how to get in touch with their romantic side is to express those feelings in a manner that will let their wife or girlfriends know that they are always thinking of them.

Many guys are romantic but don’t like anyone to know that they are, in their eyes it may make them seem less macho. These closet romantics will display a momentary romantic gesture before retreating back into their tough guy façade. Being a closet romantic is fine as long as the object of your affection sees through the facade, and you make no major effort to conceal your romantic guy alter ego from her.

Timing is another important aspect of the guy’s code to romance. Romantic gestures must come from a spontaneous outpouring of feelings that are pure and not contrived to cover some ulterior motive. Forgetting your girlfriend’s birthday and feeling pretty crappy about it is not a good reason for romance, as guilt is never a good reason to do anything, it is merely covering for something that should have been done already. Romantic gestures should not be one and done either, they are continuous expressions of how you feel about someone.

Once those feelings begin to wane, and the displays of affection are few and far between, the relationship is usually on the decline. Romance encompasses both passion and intimacy, but it is important to realize that there is a difference between these two. Quite often you will meet someone and the passion burns hot for a short period of time but quite often fades quickly as well. Intimacy is a closeness that takes time to develop and usually can stand the test of time, especially when expressions of romance are displayed on an ongoing basis, but more importantly, as long as romance is felt.

Writing A Good Headline For Your Dating Profile.

Published on 18 Jun 2012 with 0 Comments

 

By creating an effective online dating profile headline, a person can literally change their life. Read about several writing tips to help point you in the right direction.

Meeting your potential mate online is very common these days as internet dating has made it easy and convenient for people to get together. Just like anything else, there are some things to know in order to improve your online dating experience.

Creating a meaningful profile can make all the difference in the world in terms of your success in meeting someone online so here are some guidelines. Your profile is going to need a name or title. Try to think of a headline for a dating profile that somehow identifies who you are or what you’re interested in. Stay away from names that might send the wrong message to someone who will be reading your profile.

The next thing to do is to write about yourself. This section is very important because it’s like making a first impression on someone. The goal in writing about yourself is to let people know what your interests are and what you’re looking for. Be sure to list any hobbies that you may have so that you can attract someone who has similar interests.

Stay away from sounding negative, angry and apologetic for being on a dating site as this will make you appear to be a bitter person. Instead focus on writing about positive things and try including a little humor in your profile which can really make all the difference in the world. You can even incorporate this into the dating profile headlines.

Checking for grammar, spelling and punctuation errors is also very important. A person can be extremely intelligent but if their writing is filled with spelling mistakes and typos, they’re are going to appear uneducated and readers will get easily annoyed and turned off.

After you’ve finished writing about yourself you will need to post a photo. Including several pictures of yourself will greatly increase your odds of having your profile noticed. When it comes to dating advice, I can’t think of anything more important then including several photos of yourself in your profile as a picture is worth a thousand words. Make sure you are easily viewable in the photos and stay away from posting pictures of you and your friends.

By taking the time to create meaningful dating profiles with catchy dating profile headlines, using the above dating tips as a writing guide, you’ll increase your chances of finding what it is you’ve been searching for and that is when your life can literally change!

 

 

 

What Do Women Really Want From Men!?

Published on 01 Jun 2012 with 1 Comment

If you’ve ever wondered what a woman really wants from her man then check out this graphic. We surveyed over 4,600 women to help uncover what they really want from their man!

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Divorced women and how to meet men after separation.

Published on 30 May 2012 with 0 Comments

 

While divorce may be viewed as the end of one chapter, it is also often thought of as a fresh start for many. So how to move forward and actually meet men now that you’re single? There are many places an attractive woman can meet a new guy
and begin the process of dating after divorce.

Check out singles groups. Whether you have a friend that belongs to an outdoor enthusiasts group, or saw an ad for Parents without Partners on Facebook, don’t just listen to the stories others tell about how much fun they have, get out there and join them! There are plenty of single men in these groups who are looking to socialize and meet single women.  Pay attention to who the single dads are at your child’s school. It could be a fellow volunteer at the Ice Cream Social, or may even be your son’s teacher… so be receptive to school-time conversation and don’t count anything out.
Network within your circle of friends. Your friends are one of your greatest resources when it comes to meeting Mr. Right (or even just Mr. Now), so be sure they know you are looking. Too often, friends may assume that you’re “not ready” after your divorce unless you come right out and tell them. Even if they don’t know someone directly, their spouses have co-workers, who have friends, etc.  Join a gym.  A local gym can be a great place to meet men while keeping yourself looking your best. Nothing says I am over past relationships and ready for the future better than a well toned body. The best part is that you don’t even have to look like you are ready for the next fitness competition to attract men, you need only show the determination to try in order to attract! If you are looking for a bit of payback as well, a well toned body is great revenge as this states to your ex (if he should happen to see you) that you have moved on and he is no longer holding you back and your best is not being wasted on him.
The bottom line is that just because one marriage didn’t work out the way you had planned does not mean that you will never have the type of relationship you have always longed for. After all, there is life after divorce for women! The only thing that can stop you is you! Giving up is only going to make you lonely and more than likely overweight, (see tip about going to gym). You need to make a conscious effort to be receptive to engaging in a new relationship.  Sitting home and merely browsing the profiles is not going to get you out on a Saturday night, but taking the bull by the horns and sending an introductory message just might. Keep an open mind and realize that the perfect person for you may turn up in any situation, from bumping into in line at the supermarket or asking you about the book you are reading during your morning commute. In can happen anytime and anywhere and all you have to do is be open to notion that it will.

Long Distance Relationships – Should I go or should I stay?

Published on 15 May 2012 with 0 Comments

Long distance relationships are never easy and they will strain even the best of relationships. The smallest speed bumps may seem like Mount Everest when you are hundreds of miles away from the one you want to be with. So then the question eventually arises should I, or my partner, consider a move to the other’s city so we can be together? Sounds like a relatively simple question, right? Well, the truth of the matter is that it can be one of the most unsettling experiences in your life, and that’s not even from the move itself, just the thought of it! So how does one know that they should consider picking up their current life and moving to another city? Here are some factors and advice that a person should consider before making such a transition.

One of the most significant indicators of when a long distance relationship should become a same city relationship is length of time. If you have recently met someone on a vacation to some tropical beach and you live in New York and they live in Texas, short of fireworks and baby cupids flying over your heads when you kiss, there is no reason for either of you to make a life altering decision to relocate at this time. One of the greatest blunders a new couple can make is mistaking desire and lust for a true relationship with potential. Moving too quickly concerning a long distance relationship is a recipe for failure, as you still don’t know enough about each other to make a life changing decision. If the two of you are meant to be together, you can both wait just a bit longer without worrying about the actions of the other.
Another important factor in determining whether it is feasible for you to make a move in order to change a long distance relationship into a same city one is what type of job or career you currently have. If you work for yourself via the Internet such as a stock trader or as an online consultant, the move would be much easier than a person who needs to be at a brick and mortar office on a daily basis. Most of the time your career determines your place of residence more than you do. There are however those larger companies that have many offices nationwide which could make a move much easier. The bottom line is that you may have spent a lot of time and effort getting to a point in your career that would not transitional well to a move and to start fresh may cause issues and resentment. Your partner may be having the exact same concerns as you about their career as well.
For those who are already well into their careers there are also those that may be still be attending various universities and have not yet found their career paths. This does not make the move from one city to another any less difficult, as like large companies, universities may be on opposite sides of the country and just as difficult to transfer from one to another. The positive aspect of being a college student involved in a long distance relationship is that age is on your side. It is much easier for a young person to delay a relocation decision as they have more than likely not yet invested much time into their chosen fields of occupation. Young people for the most part are mostly concerned about their own careers, this bit of selfish or “me first” attitude may make any relationships take a back seat for the moment.

Relocation to a new city to be with that special someone is a great plan if you truly feel the potential of a long-term relationship is there, but consider what you may be leaving behind. We have mentioned jobs and school, but what about the people we leave behind? What family are we leaving? Do you have older parents that need you? Do you have brothers and sisters that may only get to see you occasionally on holidays? This is an issue that you must give serious consideration and seek advice as moving to be with someone you may love may cause more heartache than letting him or her go.


Millionaire Matchmaker Will Find You A Rich Sugar Daddy

Published on 08 May 2012 with 0 Comments

Matchmaking is quite often described as a method of bringing individuals together for the intention of dating and hopefully entering into a long term relationship. This worked quite well in the movie “fiddler on the roof” and we all know that wonderful song with the axiom “matchmaker, matchmaker make me a match” but in that film there was another song that was even more poignant to our discussion, that being, “If I were a rich man!” Hence begins our discussion in the use of a millionaire matchmaker and the search to find a rich sugar daddy.

There are great numbers of dating services in the world, however if we narrow down their scope of relevance to only those catering to the extremely wealthy, we are then left with the upscale millionaire matchmakers. These dating services cater to those who have achieved much in their lives including great wealth, and therefore are searching for relationships that go beyond the traditional and ordinary. Introductions can be achieved in a number of ways, but with the advent of the World Wide Web and high technology, most scenarios involving an introduction are taking place on the internet, although a very few still conduct this undertaking in a up close and in person manner.

In order to accurately introduce a wealthy man to a young woman who is trying to find a rich sugar daddy or “significant other” of considerable affluence, the dating service must determine in addition to the normal criteria for a dating relationship, the financial status of one party and the desires of the other. This may seem like an easy task except that it is quite common for those in positions of great wealth to not be entirely forthcoming as to their alleged levels. The other party may also exaggerate their perceived worth and overstate their desires as well.

The millionaire dating services although in the business of introductions has many more topics of concern to address than the traditional introduction service. In addition to physical and emotional compatibility, they must address issues of fiscal compatibility as well. This does not mean that both parties must be on the same financial level but both must have what the other holds of value and can provide that need. We certainly have come a long way form the brokered marriages in “Fiddler on the Roof.”

Professional Singles Too Busy For Bars

Published on 08 May 2012 with 0 Comments

The company is in the middle of merger or large acquisition and all are spending long hours at the office. Friends and relatives invite you out for a cocktail or dinner at the newest hotspot in town but are forced to decline as you have entered the ranks of the professional singles too busy for bars.  It is not uncommon, one has to make choices in life and to get to the power position many dream of, hard decisions must be made. It is at this time you are trying to find some sort of balance in life, but for professional singles too busy for bars the choices are not many. Don’t fear all is not lost as with just a bit of thought and imagination one can have the best of both worlds.

Firstly, decide if you’re going to these hotspots is to spend quality time with good friends, enjoy the evening and chat aimlessly while sipping your favorite Martini, or are you on the hunt for that special person who can make the rest of your life abundant with incredible bliss or at least the rest of that evening! It seems that many professionals have taken refuge on the various Internet dating sites which cater to any and every niche group imaginable.

The use of online dating sites has made the search for a relationship, regardless of the type, incredibly more efficient and effective. This enables those singles to begin their search for a relationship right from the comfort of their own home or office during lulls in their busy schedules. Imagine you are waiting for an important phone while watching economic news stream across CNBC.  Once can now simultaneously browse the personals on their favorite online dating site and make note of any individuals that they might want to contact at some later point. Compare this to having to dress for the evening, commute to the venue with hopes that one incredible person may catch your eye out of a hundred.

These established men and women can view thousands of profiles, which through specific search criteria are within those parameters they deem important in a significant other. Instead of spending an hour getting to know one person who may or may not have these qualities, the busy executive can now break the ice with a hundred individuals in the time it used to take to know one person. Of course these numbers are whittled down to a select few that you may want to contact in real life and invite for a person to person interaction. For hard-working demanding individuals it’s all about the numbers and in this case, time is an important asset so the more people you can meet in the shortest amount of time is of great importance.

What Actually Is An Eligible Bachelor?

Published on 30 Apr 2012 with 0 Comments

We hear the phrase eligible bachelor so often that we look at it as an all encompassing term, when most of the time people should just use the word bachelor, as they have no concept of what makes a person eligible. This term can be very subjective, however there are some factors that should be considered that are far more important than just marital status. Before we go into those aspects it should be understood that one person’s point of view on this issue can vary greatly from another’s depending on socio-economic variables as well as personal tastes. When your mother tells you her friend Ethel has a son who is a very successful Doctor and is an eligible bachelor, she may not be telling you that he has the personality of a turnip and lives with 18 cats. There are major differences between financially eligible, personality eligible or socially eligible, and of course the total package of eligibility would be a combination of all three.  Of course if he were good looking as well he’d only be eligible to those who appear at a rose ceremony on televisions’ “the bachelor.”

Financially eligible is an important factor as it has been said many times that its just as easy to date a rich man as a poor one, however the perks of dating someone who is financially stabile and can afford to take you out to dinner without having to check how much of a balance is left on his ATM or credit card, is quite nice. Money matters are one of the main causes of divorce so it should definitely be well thought-out when considering dating someone.  Remember, we are assuming for arguments sake that this person is single so the only question is in what other ways is he eligible.

 

Next, you must think about how this person’s personality will mesh with yours. If you are an outgoing, and boisterous person who likes to party the night away at the newest and trendiest clubs, while he would rather stay at home watching reruns of “Star trek” there may be some issues in a potential relationship. Personality eligibility means that you have common interests and not only would enjoy spending time engaging in activities, but would also like to spend time discussing them in a manner you both enjoy. Having pleasant conversation over dinner and a bottle of wine is wonderful if you both take pleasure in it, if one does and the other would rather talk about it in between sets at a head banger’s battle of the bands, well…not so good.

Socially eligible may seem to encompass some aspects of the personality component, however this is more about how he acts and responds to social situations. If your friends, and those you tend to spend a great deal of leisure time with are fun loving and gregarious and your potential significant other is more of a quiet, sit in the corner at parties kind of guy he may not fit in to your social network very well. You may think that this doesn’t matter, as he would be dating you and not them. Wrong! When you date someone, you bring them into your group of friends and family. Everyone around you  ‘dates’ that person to some extent. If your friends do not feel comfortable around this person, you could find yourself not being invited to as many group outings as you had previously.

So as you see, the key to understanding the true meaning of eligible bachelor goes well beyond the simple significance of being unmarried. The eligible bachelor should be someone who fits into your world and you fit into theirs, this fit need not be perfect but it should be close enough to supply each of you what you desire without have to compromise too much of what and who you are. So when mom tells you that her friend Ethel has a son that is perfect eligible bachelor for you, take a moment to figure out what eligible might mean to you.

How To Have A Successful Dinner Date At Home

Published on 26 Mar 2012 with 0 Comments

 

There is nothing more genuine and caring than offering to cook a meal for your date.  Whether you are male or female, the effort and thought put into the endeavor is sure to pay high dividends in the relationship, if you do it right. The set up to the dinner is almost as important as the food itself. A great dinner starts with great ingredients much in the same way a great relationship starts with great components such as the little things that are the foundation of whatever you are trying to build.  You have a choice to make here as shopping for the ingredients can also be a great relationship experience as well. A stroll through a gourmet food market, complete with a bit of taste testing can be as appealing as the actual dinner and can give you some great dinner date ideas. It’s a good way to figure out what types of foods your date likes, and a walk through a wine and spirits store will also tell you much about your date.  Shopping together works much better when you are already in tune with the gastronomic preferences of your date and you can also test their tolerance for others things; such as if there is a Chinese section of town complete with ducks, chickens and other formerly living creatures waiting for their turn on the butcher’s block. After all, nothing says I love you better than a tank of Carp or Toads destined for your kitchen.

 

Make certain whatever you are cooking allows ample time to spend with your date. If you are cooking a five-course meal and all of them require your utmost attention, it will leave you with minimal time together. Even if this is the kind of dinner where you both do the cooking, you want to have some down time as well. It is best in these situations to create a menu that will leave sufficient room for conversation throughout the meal. The actual meal however is not the end all be all of the evening, as other important elements should be taken into consideration as well.

Presentation of the food along with the setting of an attractive table shows your date that you do pay attention to the little things.  Remember, that a great meal and attractive table set up mean nothing if your place looks like a pigsty. Make sure you have spent sufficient time cleaning up your home; this means every room especially the bathroom. No person likes to come into the bathroom of someone they are dating and decides they would rather go to the 7-11 across the street for their needs.  A clean house will always make your date feel comfortable in your home and if they feel comfortable there, it’s a good bet they will want to come back frequently. Two final points to make are to always make the initial dinner something that you have cooked before and are familiar with, the second point is that if your meal doesn’t turn out as you had hoped, have a alternative or plan “B” such as keeping the number of a pricey restaurant with take out service on speed dial!